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Parents Helping Parents

Alyson Schafer "Ain't Misbehavin"

Saturday January 28, 2011 10:30 am

Runnymede Community Church

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P.E.N COURSESTo Register Call 416.394.7560 ext. 20008P.E.N. offers three types of parenting classes:One-evening WorkshopsMulti-week CoursesCustom CoursesWORKSHOPS (1 session):Workshops are typically 1.5 to 2 hours long and are held on a single evening. Special workshops might run on a weekend day and last several hours, depending on the topic. In just a short time, parents can learn all coping strategies for positive parenting.----------------------------------------------------------COURSES (4 or 6 session):Courses meet once a week for 2 hours over 4 to 6 weeks. Courses are lively, participatory, idea-filled exchanges. The multi-week format creates a problem-solving environment, and gives parents an opportunity to try new ideas at home, come back to class, discuss, and refine their skills.----------------------------------------------------------CUSTOM CLASSES:In addition to our regularly scheduled workshops and courses, we can hold a class just for you!P.E.N. can bring our regular workshops and courses directly to your door. But we can also customize them just for your school, workplace, house of worship, community centre, neighbourhood group, book club, etc. It's fun to learn and grow with your friends and co-workers! If you have a brilliantidea for a new class, call us! We can design something tailored to the specific interests and needs of your group.We welcome requests from schools, businesses, or community/religious groups.We can provide day or evening presentations at your location. Whether it's a "Lunch & Learn" session, or a single night, or a multi-week series, we can work with you. Tel: 416-255-8969 or Email: parentednet_rogers.com
P.E.N.'s Mission StatementSince 1974, our mission has been to enrich the quality and increase the enjoyment of family life. We are parents helping parents to develop the tools and skills needed to meet the challenges of raising children. P.E.N. provides parent education classes that emphasize mutual respect, encouragement, and the development of maturity and self-control in our children and in ourselves. We believe that helping parents and caregivers gain knowledge and a broader range of positive parenting skills is essential to helping our children develop into happy, secure, self-sufficient, emotionally healthy adults, capable of becoming good parents and constructive citizens in their own turn.We believe that an approach which focuses on respect for every individual (adult and child), and encourages independence, responsibility and self-management, reduces the incidence and severity of behaviour problems, conflict, bullying, and child abuse in our homes, schools and communities. Our focus is on prevention. Preventing problems or tackling them while they're small is so much easier and gets better results!History Of The OrganizationParent Education Network is a non-profit, registered charity formed in 1974 by a grass roots community group in West Toronto. A small number of committed parents came together weekly to help each other learn and grow as parents. Parent Education Network grew steadily over time.From 1974 to 1982, Parent Education Network operated on a volunteer basis, with donations from members and community agencies.In 1982-83, grants from Etobicoke and Metropolitan Toronto Community Services enabled Parent Education Network to hire a Program Coordinator and to expand our programs to a wider geographical area.From 1984 to 1988, we were affiliated with Humber College. Back then we were known as the Etobicoke Family Life Education Council. We hosted lectures and workshops by some of the best-known names in the field of parenting and childcare, including sessions with Leo Buscaglia (Love and the Family Today), Barbara Coloroso (Discipline - Kids Are Worth It), Faber & Mazlish (How To Talk So Kids Will Listen), and many others.During these years, Parent Education Network started an in-house Leadership Training Program, through which our own parent educators began facilitating parenting classes. We continue to train new leaders drawn from the expertise of our parent members.Over the years, our focus has completely shifted from large-scale lectures to building sustainable parenting skills in our community by offering small and affordable classes where lively group discussions and learning from each other can flourish.Today, we are pleased to be partially supported by The City of Toronto Community Services Grants Program. We also rely on memberships, private and corporate donations, and class fees.Parent Education Network currently has approximately ten P.E.N.-trained educators who lead our many classes.Our goals are to help parents:• Improve verbal and non-verbal communication in the home• Prevent and resolve family conflict, in a manner that preserves the dignity and worth of all family members • Help children develop the skills of self-management and maturity, through cooperation, responsibility, independence, and courage • Build a positive, strong, and resilient self-image in our children and ourselves-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Terminology Note: We use the word “parents” to refer to all adults who contribute to the teaching, care, and raising of children. This includes guardians, teachers, coaches, grandparents, stepparents, caregivers, tutors, babysitters, lunchroom assistants, etc.Philosophy Note: P.E.N. was founded on the philosophy of Adlerian psychology, whose approach to humanity considers the virtues of equality, respect, and democratic freedom as its guiding principles.

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I would like to thank you for your continued support toward our Teen Parenting for the past 3 years. For the past 25 years, First Stage Child Care Centre is a non-profit centre and our mandate is to provide child care services while young mothers attain their education.

Your support in providing the 6 weeks Teen Parenting Skills workshop has made significant impact in the lives of the young mothers and fathers. Vivian, presenter from PEN has been an excellent leader and mentor to the group. Vivian has established an atmosphere that encourages the parents to share success and challenges, network and engage with one another. The parents learned valuable parenting skills that were transferred into their day to day interaction with their child.

When the series of workshop ended this spring, our parents asked if they can continue to meet on a weekly basis to support and network with each other, even throughout the summer months. They took it as far as naming themselves the Parent in Action group; determined to put into action what they have learn as young parents.

I have briefly shared with you how the educational workshops have made an impact in our parents and childrens lives. I would like to ask for your continued support in providing educational workshops to enhance Teen parenting skills.

Upcoming New Year Classes & WorkshopsHOW TO TALK SO KIDS WILL LISTEN4 Week CourseThursday, Jan. 12, 19, 26 & Feb. 2, 6:30-8:30pmThe Busy Genie Play and Learning Centre4133 Dundas St. WestCost: $70for more information, call us at 416-394-7560 ext. 20008-------------------------------------------------------AN EXCITING P.E.N. FUNDRAISERCOMING IN JANUARYParent Education Network presents our workshop at:Runnymede Community Church60 Colbeck St. ( Runnymede Rd & Colbeck St.), Toronto, ON M6S 1T9Guest Speaker - Alyson Schafer is a psychotherapist and internationally acclaimed parenting expert. She is the Ask anExpert columnist for Todays Parent Magazine and sits on the Health Advisory Board for Chatelaine Magazine. She is the best-selling author of three parenting books published by John Wiley and Sons; Breaking the Good Mom Myth (2007), Honey, I Wrecked The Kids (2009), and her latest Aint Misbehavin (2011). Her popular TV call-in show The Parenting Showis now in its fifth season.Date: Saturday, January 28, 2012 10:30amCost: $20, $25 at the door (Sign up, space is limited)To register, please 416-394-7560 Ext. 20008 ------------------------------------------------------ANGER MANAGEMENT - POSITIVE SOLUTIONS FOR MANAGING ANGER1 Evening WorkshopWedneday, Jan. 25, 2012; 6:30pm-8:30pmThe Busy Genie Play & Learning Centre4133 Dundas St. West( Dundas St. West & Prince Edward Dr).Cost: $20For more information, please call 416-394-7560 Ext. 20008-------------------------------------------------------GLAD TO BE A DAD 4 Week CourseA course for all groups of dads to celebrate fatherhood paying particular attention to what dads do well and helping each other get it right. Come and learn positive discipline, communication skills and celebrate the creativity in their fatherhood. Tuesdays, Jan. 31 & Feb 7, 14, 21; 7:00pm-9:00pm Runnymede Community Church 60 Colbeck Street (Colbect St. & Runnymede Ave.).Cost: $70For more information, please call 416-394-7560 Ext. 20008-------------------------------------------------------HOW TO TALK SO KIDS WILL LISTENI Evening WorkshopMonday, Feb. 6, 6:30-8:30pmChine Drive Public School51 Chine Drivefor more information, call us at 416-394-7560 ext. 20008-------------------------------------------------------UNDERSTANDING YOUR CHILD'S PERSONALITYI Evening WorkshopThursday, Feb. 9, 7:00-9:00pmMountview Alternative Junior Public School#99 Mountview Ave.for more information, call us at 416-394-7560 ext. 20008-------------------------------------------------------HOW TO RAISE YOUR CHILD'S SELF ESTEEM - POSITIVE DISCIPLINE4 Week CourseWednesday, Feb. 15, 22, 29 & Mar. 7, 6:30-8:30pmThe Busy Genie Play and Learning Centre4133 Dundas St. WestCost: $70for more information, call us at 416-394-7560 ext. 20008-------------------------------------------------------TEEN TURMOIL - HOW TO COMMUNICATE WITH YOUR ADOLESCENT 1 Evening WorkshopThursday, Feb. 16, 6:30-8:30pmThe Busy Genie Play and Learning Centre4133 Dundas St. WestCost: $20for more information, call us at 416-394-7560 ext. 20008-------------------------------------------------------
Class DescriptionsPOSITIVE DISCIPLINE (Our signature class)Each stage has its challenges. No matter the age of your child or toddler to teen this class can address your needs. This program is financially supported by the City of Toronto, through the Community Service Partnerships Program.HOW TO TALK SO KIDS WILL LISTENExpress your anger without being hurtful and use alternatives to punishment.EASY TO LOVE, HARD TO DISCIPLINEMom says "No" and Dad says "Yes". Build respectful relationships with yourself, your partner, and your children.FOSTERING SELF-ESTEEMLearn practical tips that nurture your child's self-confidence. Pave the way for healthy decision-making as the perilous teen years approach.POSITIVE SOLUTIONS FOR MANAGING ANGERLearn how to avoid common traps and identify triggers to your anger and that of your kids.TOP 10 STRESS SURVIVAL STRATEGIESHow parents can lower stress, even though you'll never eliminate it.POWER STRUGGLESPower struggles between you and your child can happen at any age over anything. Learn how to spend more time getting along and less time struggling.YOU CAN'T MAKE MELearn techniques to minimize power struggles around bedtime, morning, and mealtime routines.MEAL - TIME MADNESSCan't get your kids to eat or stay at the table? Things don't have to stay that way.TODDLER TOILET LEARNINGLeave behind your frustration and learn to recognize your child's signs of readiness.SIBLINGS WITHOUT RIVALRYLearn simple but effective techniques to promote cooperation instead of competition.HOMEWORK STRATEGIES & STUDY SKILLSWhere's the boundary between helping and doing it? Learn how to tame the homework monster.STRATEGIES TO HELP STUDENTS WITHOUT FOCUSLearn to help your kids break down tasks into manageable bites.ALLOWANCES, CHORES & MONEY SKILLSMoney management is a key life skill. Come for some great ideas.BULLYING: WHY IS IT STILL A PROBLEM?We tell kids not to bully, yet adult bullying is everywhere. Find out what adults and bystanders can do. (Facilitated By Lorna Blumen)INTERNET USE & SAFETY - REFRAMING THE PICTUREWhat are the most important things parents can do to safeguard the kids?TEEN TURMOIL: HOW TO COPEIt's hard to be understanding and loving in the teen years, but it's essential.RECOGNIZING TEEN DEPRESSIONLearn how to recognize symptoms and decide on what to do.GLAD TO BE A DADDads who are themselves teens can learn positive parenting skills.EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCEUnderstand your and your children's emotional capabilities.SEXUAL ASSAULT & TEENS(video provided by Nformd.net)MOTHER & DAUGHTER SELF-DEFENSE(provided by Wen-Do)MANNERS FOR MEALTIME & LIFEHosted by Adeodata Czink, kids & adults have a chance to learn about meals & manners. (provided by Business of Manners)

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You Can't Make Me1 Evening Workshop Thursday, Nov. 18, 6:30-8:30pmTurtlecreek, Ontario Early Years1-5632 Tenth line West, Mississauga------------------------------------------------------How To Talk So Kids Will Listen4 Week Course Tuesdays, Nov. 23, 30 & Dec. 7, 14, 6:30-8:30pmThe Busy Genie Play & Learning Centre2885 Bloor St. WestMembers $60, Non Members $70
Stress Management1 Evening Workshop Thursday, Nov. 25, 6:30-8:30pmThe Busy Genie Play & Learning Centre2885 Bloor St. WestMembers $20, Non Members $25-------------------------------------------------------Homework Strategies1 Morning Workshop Saturday, Nov. 27, 6:30-8:30pmAlbion Neighbourhood Service - Newcomer Resource Centre2687 Kipling Ave.

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Build Your Child's Self-Esteem

Paul Kropp, author of The School Solution , ( Random House, 1995 ), wrote an article for Today's Parent entitled Is Your Child Addicted to Praise? Kropp says: "When undeserved, praise can warp a child's sense of self." Give your child honest feedback, encourage their efforts, and allow your child room for self-evaluation.

The following are excellent reminders for all parents:

Make time and room for your child to learn by including kids in your projects.

Not every nail in the deck has to be straight.

Start with easy tasks first - kids have to build a birdhouse before they tackle a grandfather clock.

Don't rescue too soon - give your child a chance to solve the problem and to feel (some) honest frustration.

Make sure there are challenges outside the home - Scouts, swim teams, music lessons. Keep the number of outside interests sensible.

Find something positive to say about the final result, ESPECIALLY if it's not perfect! Focus on the positive. When you can see in your children's eyes that they think something is good, put it up on the fridge or showcase it in some special way.

Tips For Teens Tips For Teens: Effective Parenting SkillsPARENT EDUCATION FOR HIGH SCHOOL MOMSBy P.E.N. Facilitator Vivian PengellyJanine* is a single mom to two boys, ages 1 and 2. She has all the worries of a typical mom...coping with midnight teething, picky eating, and temper tantrums. But along with these challenges, she worries about her grades, and wonders whether she will be able to complete her homework. Janine was one of the keen participants in the recent six-week course taught by the Parent Education Network and funded by a grant from the Retired Teachers of Ontario. The course was a pilot project and the brainchild of Katy Anderson, retired high school teacher and long standing member of P.E.N. (Parent Education Network.) Classes were held after school at West Humber Collegiate Institute, a busy high school with a daycare on site for the students who are also parents. The sessions provided effective parenting tips and support for an intimate group of these young parents. The P.E.N. facilitator, Vivian Pengelly, taught communication skills, strategies to encourage young children, and alternatives to punishment as a means to discipline toddlers. The young moms were receptive to learning effective parenting skills and gradually opened up to share their own personal challenges with their peers. "I know I have a lot to learn," said Janine after the first session. Positive and consistent parenting can hugely impact on families in a high-risk socio-economic situation. Children, who receive not only unconditional love, but also effective democratic parenting, can grow up avoiding the pitfalls of gang violence and drug dependency. Not only did Janine and her classmates benefit from these parenting education classes by learning positive coping strategies, but the children of these young moms have much to gain in the future. Parent Education Network has been providing courses and workshops in West Toronto since 1974 and it hoped that with additional funding from other foundations or corporations, this project can continue to be offered at other high schools. When we provide support for the parents, we also impact family life for the children.** Name changed to maintain privacy.

Helpful Parenting Articles

Alderian Psychology.pdf

Adlerian Psychology: The Basics

The five basic principles of Adlerian Psychology, the cornerstone of Parent Education Network's teachings.

Parents Role.pdf

What's The Parent's Role In Problem Solving?

An excerpt from the classic "How To Talk So Kids Will Listen" by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish.

Building Self Esteem
Tips For Teens
Helpful Parenting Articles

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